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What to ask · Last reviewed 7 September 2025
Written and maintained by the Clinics for Kings editorial desk·Edited by Morten Andersen & Fredrik Filipsson
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IVF, the questions that matter.

IVF is emotional and expensive, and success rates fall with age, so a clinic's honesty about your real chances matters more than its marketing. Here are the questions that separate a careful clinic from a risky one. We never name a clinic.

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Live birth rate
The figure that counts
not pregnancy rate
ask for it by age
Falls with age
Chances decline,
especially after 35
expect honest numbers
One embryo
Single transfer lowers
multiple pregnancy risk
ask the clinic policy
The one honest thing
No clinic can promise a baby. Success rates fall with age, a cycle can fail, and headline figures can be presented to flatter. Ask for verified, age specific live birth rates.
Quick answer

What should I ask a clinic?

Ask for the live birth rate, not just the pregnancy rate, broken down by age and your diagnosis, and ideally verified against the national regulator. Then ask their policy on single versus multiple embryo transfer, how they manage the risk of ovarian hyperstimulation, exactly what the price includes, and who provides your monitoring and care once you travel home.

A clinic that gives honest, verified numbers and sets realistic expectations is the one to trust. A guaranteed baby or a vague all in price is a warning sign. This is general information, not medical advice.

How to choose and what to ask

Six questions before you agree.

IVF is emotional and costly, and outcomes depend heavily on age, so honest numbers and a clear plan matter. A careful clinic answers all six plainly and in writing. We never name clinics.

1
What is your live birth rate for someone like me?
Pregnancy rates can flatter a clinic. Ask for the live birth rate per cycle and per transfer, broken down by age and your diagnosis, and ask whether it is verified against the national regulator.
2
How honest are you about my age and chances?
Success falls with age, especially after 35, and drops further with your own eggs after 40. Ask the clinic to be candid about your realistic odds rather than quoting a best case figure.
3
What is your embryo transfer policy?
Many careful clinics favour single embryo transfer to lower the risks of a multiple pregnancy, such as premature birth. Ask their policy and why, rather than assuming more embryos means more success.
4
How do you manage ovarian hyperstimulation?
Ovarian hyperstimulation is a recognised risk of the stimulation drugs. Ask how the clinic tailors the protocol to lower it, how they monitor for it, and what they do if it develops.
5
What does the price actually include?
IVF costs add up across drugs, monitoring, the egg collection, the lab, and any freezing or storage. Ask for an itemised quote and what a second cycle would cost, so there are no surprises.
6
Who monitors me, and what about the law?
IVF needs monitoring scans and blood tests, and the rules on donors, embryos, and records differ by country. Ask who handles monitoring near home and how the local law affects your treatment and rights.
Warning signs

The red flags that should stop you.

A baby promised or implied

No clinic can guarantee a live birth, and a cycle can fail. Any promise of success, or pressure that plays on hope, is a reason to be cautious rather than reassured.

Numbers that cannot be verified

Headline rates can be selected to flatter. If a clinic will not break results down by age or show how they compare to verified national data, treat the figures with caution.

Pressure to transfer many embryos

Pushing several embryos to boost the headline rate raises the risks of a multiple pregnancy. A clinic that ignores those risks to lift its numbers is not putting you first.

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Common questions

The things everyone asks.

Why ask for the live birth rate?

A pregnancy does not always lead to a baby, so the live birth rate gives a clearer picture of your real chances. Ask for it per cycle and per transfer, broken down by age, rather than a single headline figure.

How much does age affect success?

A great deal. Success rates decline with age, especially after 35, and fall further when using your own eggs after 40. Ask the clinic for honest, age specific numbers rather than an average.

Should I transfer one embryo or more?

Many careful clinics favour single embryo transfer because a multiple pregnancy carries higher risks, such as premature birth. Ask the clinic's policy and the reasons behind it for your situation.

What is ovarian hyperstimulation?

It is a recognised reaction to the stimulation drugs, where the ovaries respond too strongly. A careful clinic tailors the protocol to lower the risk and monitors for it, so ask how they manage it.

What matters most when doing IVF abroad?

Verified success rates, an itemised price, and a clear plan for monitoring near home. The law on donors, embryos, and records also differs by country, so ask how it affects your treatment and your rights.

Keep reading

Where to go next.

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